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What Do You Really Want? (Why Coaching May Not Be What You Think It Is)

Nobody "Buys" Coaching. Let’s be honest: nobody wakes up in the morning excited to "buy" coaching. We don't buy services; we invest in desired outcomes. We invest in where we want to go, not just where we are. If you were to treat yourself as an investment—like a stock or a business venture—what is the dividend you are looking for? What is it that you really want? It’s a deceptively simple question.  When we start a conversation with someone just starting their journey of being coached, it might begin with simple prompts or specific professional goals. But very quickly, those questions will help you realize something profound: You are creating everything that happens in your life. That is the pivotal moment. Once you realize you have that agency, the ceiling lifts. You stop looking for small fixes and start dreaming bigger. The Gap Between Success and Satisfaction To illustrate this, let’s look at a specific group we often see this dynamic play out with: Financi...
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"M.M.I. Time": Reclaim a little Solitude to Unlock Your Best Thinking

This simple but often overlooked idea is really resonating with my coaching clients right now: a practical way to reclaim some feeling of control & clarity — even if you feel you can’t afford time away. Today’s professionals and leaders rush from meeting to meeting, consumed by emails, calls, and tasks. Amid the chaos, one crucial element goes missing: time to think clearly, creatively, and strategically. That’s where M.M.I. – “Me, Myself & I” time – comes in. Even short, micro bites of solitude can make a big difference. Imagine setting aside time once a week — or even once a month to get started — NOT AT THE OFFICE, with no agenda or distractions. Head to a coffee shop or local library. Let yourself declutter your mind, prioritize what matters, plan next moves, and make thoughtful decisions. In these moments, you give yourself permission to: ✅ Tap into intuition – hear the quiet voice that busyness drowns out. ✅ Spark creativity and inspiration – fresh ideas and renewed energ...

What It Takes to Be a Successful Coach

  You have the heart of a coach, and you’ve already invested significant time in building your practice. But are you truly maximizing your impact and income? The transition from "solo consultant" to a highly-leveraged, successful coach requires more than just adding new clients—it demands a specific mindset, proven business readiness, and a commitment to ongoing growth. Many people want to coach. They pursue certifications, hang out a shingle, and hope for the best. But being a successful, sustainable, and impactful coach—the kind who truly transforms a client's business—requires something deeper than credentials. It requires a specific blend of proven business acumen and profound personal commitment. At ProAdvisorCoach, we don't just look for people who want to coach; we look for coaches who are ready to thrive in a supportive, high-performing environment. We’ve distilled our experience into an essential checklist. If you’re serious about building a high-impact coach...

From Firefighting to Fire Prevention: Ending the Cultural Tyranny of the Urgent Through Strategic Delegation

PART 3 OF A 3-PART SERIES ON OVERCOMING THE TYRANNY OF THE URGENT Think back to CEO Sarah from Part 1, who spent four hours troubleshooting a client issue. If she had fixed the problem, but then failed to permanently change the process that allowed the problem to reach her desk, she didn't lead—she just reacted. True executive freedom doesnt come from turning off your phone; it comes from building a system where your team can thrive without your constant, urgent intervention. In Part 1, we established the immense strategic cost of neglecting Quadrant II (Important, Not Urgent) work. In Part 2, we explored the psychological traps—like the Hero's Trap—that keep leaders addicted to urgency. As a reminder, the Eisenhower Matrix divides all tasks into four quadrants: Quadrant I: Urgent/Important (the inevitable crisis) Quadrant II: Important/Not Urgent (your strategy engine) Quadrant III: Urgent/Not Important (distractions) Quadrant IV: Not Urgent/Not Important (busywork) Now we ad...

Breaking the “Hero’s Trap”: Escaping the Psychological Grip of the Tyranny of the Urgent

Ask yourself honestly: After troubleshooting a massive client issue or putting out a major operational fire, did you feel a small, powerful rush? A surge of self-satisfaction that whispers, "See? They needed me. I saved the day"? This feeling—the reward for being the hero—is the single biggest barrier to strategic leadership. You are not trapped by your schedule; you are trapped by the dopamine you get from solving a crisis. As a brief reminder, The Eisenhower Matrix (or Urgent-Important Matrix) is a powerful time management framework inspired by President Dwight D. Eisenhower's principle that important matters are seldom urgent, and urgent matters are seldom important. It works by sorting tasks into four quadrants based on their urgency and importance, helping leaders prioritize long-term strategic work over immediate, low-value demands In Part 1 , we identified the Tyranny of the Urgent as a strategic failure, illustrating how the neglect of Quadrant II (Important...